Week 8--Hands Only

After our (relative) sex-a-thon on vacation last week, the battle to snatch our sex life from the jaws of work and family life continues in earnest. The agony of coming back is almost enough to make you regret going...almost. Unfortunately, mother nature rears her ugly head to ruin a week of sex and sap our anniversary momentum. The randomly selected challenge was impossible, given the biological circumstances. After a few redraws, we decide to cherry-pick the next challenge: hands only. I've never had a properly lubricated hand job to completion (high school sandpaper jerks notwithstanding), so I'm interested to see how it compares to my wife's stellar oral work.

At  the end of another long, tiring day, I was under the impression that we were going to sleep, but wifey had other ideas.  After a liberal application of lubricant she proceeded to use her expert hands.  This was clearly not your high school sandpaper jerk.  I expected it to feel like a blow job without the mouth, but it really didn't.  She used her hands differently applying firmer pressure and paying more attention to the shaft.  Less stimulation to the tip, which, for me, is very sensitive, allowed me to move steadily toward orgasm without feeling like I was hurtling out of control toward it.  Her hands operated just as expertly, as evidenced by the explosive orgasm with high-arcing ejaculation.  What made this even more fun for me was how much fun she was having during this little game.  Smiles and the occasional giggle made this a very playful environment.

My hands are not nearly as skilled as hers and her buttons need to be pushed in a much more specific sequence than mine, but I insisted on reciprocating.  I've gotten her off with manual stimulation before, but this time she seemed much more willing to instruct me on the button pushing.  This can be off-putting to some guys, but I liked having subtle things whispered in my ear (not having instructions barked at me).  The result was a surprisingly strong orgasm for manual stimulation only.  I suspect that the intensity had a lot to do with her being turned on from a new experience which, of course, is what this is all about.

I think we had more fun and learned a lot more than I thought we would from something that seemed so basic.  It was really fun and playful and would make a nice change up from what we're used to.  Would definitely do again.