This was more than an opportunity to say "ah." I envisioned our "mouth only" session as an opportunity to prolong oral and focus on giving. No penetration. Less pressure from not using hands = longer than normal playtime capped off with an orgasm. Besides, she almost always cums when I give her oral and I'm good for an automatic orgasm.
We did all of that and it was what we thought it would be...almost. We came upstairs after a long day. I worked and she spent all day (literally) running our daughter to her extra-curricular activities. Both of us starting off exhausted didn't bode well, but I laid her down and started going down on her. I used my hands to enjoy the rest of her body, but only mouth down below. After 20 minutes of teasing, kissing, licking and sucking, she's close, but cant get over the top and wasn't going to. So I resort to using my fingers along with my tongue and give her a long, but somewhat relaxed orgasm. The problem is that clitoral orgasms for her are an appetizer--she's just not satisfied, even with me manually stimulating her G-spot with a finger (cheating, I know).
Then it was my turn. I sat on the bed and she laid on her stomach and began a long process of kissing, licking, tongue flicking and sucking. As great as she is at giving blowjobs--and she is great!--she owes a lot of her proficiency to generous and expert use of her hands. The reproducible result is a mind-blowing, out-of-body orgasm. But I've never had a problem reaching orgasm and shouldn't tonight, even if it takes a little extra mouth work. After another 15 or 20 minutes or so, I realize I'm wrong. I'm there, but like her, I can't get over. And like me, she cheats and uses her hands...to my benefit.
All in all, this wasn't a fan favorite. The point was for some prolonged foreplay, which we both had and enjoyed. Eventually, that relaxation and build up gives way to frustration. If we learned anything, we learned that mouths are nice, but hands are important.
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