Our challenge this week is to have sex in front of mirrors, but we had a challenge to make up from last week: hot candle wax. After all of the chaos of the last 2 weeks, we've been pretty bushed lately. But we pride ourselves in our tendency to not allow our busy lives to grind our sex lives to a halt. So, we tackle challenge number one late on a weekend night.
Wifey is very tactile and the thought of the pleasure and pain of hot candle wax had her both scared and aroused at the same time. We lit some candles and got ready--she went first, insisting that we start with the small of her back. The first few drops caused her to gasp and exclaim, "That's hot!" Duh. Still, it was a little alarming for me because I thought it might be too much pain, but she insisted it was fine. After a few more pours, we decided to pour some on the more sensitive skin of her boobs to see what that was like. She was nervous and giggly with anticipation. She writhed as the hot wax burned, then cooled on her skin. She insisted that she pour some on my chest so I could experience it. It was hot, but I have to say that it didn't to much for me sexually.
A couple of observations about our half hour of playtime: First, I think this challenge turned out to be a lot less sexual than I expected. Being as touchy-feely as she is, I expected wifey to be a lot more aroused than she actually was. It seemed more like an experiment than fun sexytime. She just wasn't really revved up. Second, clean up is a BITCH. It's impossible to get the cooled wax off your skin. We found ourselves worrying about how much wax was getting where instead of worrying about being sexual. I really think that took a lot away from the experience. If we do it again, we'll do it before a shower and use some towels. Overall, it wasn't bad, but wasn't what we expected.
Mirrors was postponed due to time constraints, but we made it up here.
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