Two challenges this week: sex games and kitchen sex. DOUBLE TIME...come hell or high water...
We decided that our game would be to watch some porn, which we've done before, and try to do whatever they were doing in the film. We thought this game up (but never actually did it) when we had a subscription to PlayboyTV years ago. We'd spend several hours a week watching various porn films and documentaries on there over the years, but gave it up when the kids were old enough to poke around on my basement TV. But, on a Sunday night, there was nothing good on, so we went with free, full length internet porn. We surfed around, but couldn't really find anything that got wifey going. It was sort of a catch 22 because if we escalated to something deviant and super kinky, she may not have been willing to act it out, but she was pretty desensitized to the standard-issue porn. So that fizzled pretty spectacularly...
...but kitchen sex, now that was something different. We made our way upstairs and as we stood in our pretty basic kitchen, we didn't really know what to do or expect. Sure, there's doggy over the counter, but that's pretty cliche. Wifey, being clever, grabbed a towel and insisted that I sit on the counter in the corner so she could give me some oral. Which she did. And it was incredible. Then we did some doggy with a twist...with me still sitting on the counter and her standing on a stool with her legs closed. It was pretty ambitious, but it felt really good. Balance was an issue, though, so we switched and she hopped up on the counter facing me and I stood on the floor. For whatever reason, this hit the right spots at the right angle for her and she came two or three times.
So, one out of two ain't bad. The porn thing fizzled, but we more than made up for it with some pretty spontaneous and creative kitchen sex.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Monday, August 15, 2011
Week 32--Sex games
Again, make up time! We're a week behind, so we need to make up our challenge from last week: mirrors. This is tricky because we don't have many mirrors in our house, but we do have a dresser in our bedroom with a large 4' x 4' mirror, which means abandoning the bed for sex, which is always a fun way to mix it up.
We started off with me standing in front of the mirror and her on her knees giving me oral. Now, this was her idea and I didn't think it would be that exciting, but, if you've never seen your significant sucking your dick from a different angle, I recommend it...I found the third person perspective is really erotic.. And, I was surprised at how "bigger" I looked in the mirror. After some good foreplay, she stood and we went at it doggystyle in the mirror standing with her bent over/braced against the dresser. Again, watching us in the mirror was like watching an erotic movie. It was incredibly sexy to be able to see her back, ass and hips as normal, but then glance over an see her face, boobs and legs. Oh, and it was nice to see her reach between her legs and play with herself, too. I have a feeling that this is going to get worked in to the rotation...
This week's challenge is a "sex game," which we didn't make time for. Two challenges next week!
We started off with me standing in front of the mirror and her on her knees giving me oral. Now, this was her idea and I didn't think it would be that exciting, but, if you've never seen your significant sucking your dick from a different angle, I recommend it...I found the third person perspective is really erotic.. And, I was surprised at how "bigger" I looked in the mirror. After some good foreplay, she stood and we went at it doggystyle in the mirror standing with her bent over/braced against the dresser. Again, watching us in the mirror was like watching an erotic movie. It was incredibly sexy to be able to see her back, ass and hips as normal, but then glance over an see her face, boobs and legs. Oh, and it was nice to see her reach between her legs and play with herself, too. I have a feeling that this is going to get worked in to the rotation...
This week's challenge is a "sex game," which we didn't make time for. Two challenges next week!
Week 31--Mirrors
Our challenge this week is to have sex in front of mirrors, but we had a challenge to make up from last week: hot candle wax. After all of the chaos of the last 2 weeks, we've been pretty bushed lately. But we pride ourselves in our tendency to not allow our busy lives to grind our sex lives to a halt. So, we tackle challenge number one late on a weekend night.
Wifey is very tactile and the thought of the pleasure and pain of hot candle wax had her both scared and aroused at the same time. We lit some candles and got ready--she went first, insisting that we start with the small of her back. The first few drops caused her to gasp and exclaim, "That's hot!" Duh. Still, it was a little alarming for me because I thought it might be too much pain, but she insisted it was fine. After a few more pours, we decided to pour some on the more sensitive skin of her boobs to see what that was like. She was nervous and giggly with anticipation. She writhed as the hot wax burned, then cooled on her skin. She insisted that she pour some on my chest so I could experience it. It was hot, but I have to say that it didn't to much for me sexually.
A couple of observations about our half hour of playtime: First, I think this challenge turned out to be a lot less sexual than I expected. Being as touchy-feely as she is, I expected wifey to be a lot more aroused than she actually was. It seemed more like an experiment than fun sexytime. She just wasn't really revved up. Second, clean up is a BITCH. It's impossible to get the cooled wax off your skin. We found ourselves worrying about how much wax was getting where instead of worrying about being sexual. I really think that took a lot away from the experience. If we do it again, we'll do it before a shower and use some towels. Overall, it wasn't bad, but wasn't what we expected.
Mirrors was postponed due to time constraints, but we made it up here.
Wifey is very tactile and the thought of the pleasure and pain of hot candle wax had her both scared and aroused at the same time. We lit some candles and got ready--she went first, insisting that we start with the small of her back. The first few drops caused her to gasp and exclaim, "That's hot!" Duh. Still, it was a little alarming for me because I thought it might be too much pain, but she insisted it was fine. After a few more pours, we decided to pour some on the more sensitive skin of her boobs to see what that was like. She was nervous and giggly with anticipation. She writhed as the hot wax burned, then cooled on her skin. She insisted that she pour some on my chest so I could experience it. It was hot, but I have to say that it didn't to much for me sexually.
A couple of observations about our half hour of playtime: First, I think this challenge turned out to be a lot less sexual than I expected. Being as touchy-feely as she is, I expected wifey to be a lot more aroused than she actually was. It seemed more like an experiment than fun sexytime. She just wasn't really revved up. Second, clean up is a BITCH. It's impossible to get the cooled wax off your skin. We found ourselves worrying about how much wax was getting where instead of worrying about being sexual. I really think that took a lot away from the experience. If we do it again, we'll do it before a shower and use some towels. Overall, it wasn't bad, but wasn't what we expected.
Mirrors was postponed due to time constraints, but we made it up here.
Monday, August 1, 2011
week 30--Hot Candle Wax
Unfortunately, we had a sizeable family emergency this week, so a sex challenge was the farthest thing from our minds. The good news is that, after a short family vacation, things will be hopefully back to normal by next week. You can read about our candle wax experience here.
Week 29--TV Room Sex
Before I moved in with my wife, and before I had constructed my glorious man cave in the basement, we spent a lot of time watching TV in what is now the TV room...a small room with a day bed that the kids watch TV in. Of course, there was a fair amount of nookie in that room, too. So when we drew the challenge to have more sex in there, I thought, "how hard can it be?"
Uh...yeah. Hard, apparently. We just couldn't get it together for some reason. It was the most uncomfortable and awkward sex we've had in years...maybe ever. The day bed was terribly uncomfortable and we couldn't find a position that worked, so we ended up kneeling on the floor up against the daybed. We both agreed that we couldn't get done fast enough.
Uh...yeah. Hard, apparently. We just couldn't get it together for some reason. It was the most uncomfortable and awkward sex we've had in years...maybe ever. The day bed was terribly uncomfortable and we couldn't find a position that worked, so we ended up kneeling on the floor up against the daybed. We both agreed that we couldn't get done fast enough.
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