All about me. One would think that this is the one that I'd be looking forward to more than anything, but, actually I was a little hesitant. I consider myself a pretty generous lover. Me (and my orgasms) are simple...with the exception of a few things that heighten my pleasure, I'm basically a one trick pony. Light pressure, long and slow strokes and things are about as good as they get. Now throw in an engaging partner who's obviously enjoying herself and I enjoy myself a lot more. Hence the quandry of the "All About Him" challenge: to really make it all about me, it would have to be mostly about her.
Now, with that said, I have an incredibly generous partner. Wifey loves to take care of her man, so she likes challenges like this. And, as our time together goes on, I'm getting better at laying back and being "serviced." At regular intervals. So, after a long, agonizing Saturday at work, I came home to the wife and kids. I went upstairs to change while I told wifey about my day...yadda, yadda, yadda. Then, BAM! Surprise, quickie, doggie sex. Only 5 or 10 minutes, but it was awesome. It takes a lot psychologically for me to finish before her, but, hey, it's all about me, right? Later on, at bedtime, I got a nice, long BJ to send me off to sleep.
Okay, so all about me wasn't so bad.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Week 15--Middle-of-the-Night Sex
We actually drew a different challenge this week, but this one just kind of materialized. Although, it's out of order, it's the type of challenge that's really hard to do on command, but, when it happens at the right time, it's an awesome sexual experience. So, with those issues in mind, we agreed to write about our night and redraw for next week.
Exhausted from a hellish week at work, we went to bed early on Friday...like old folks. Consequently, we got up pretty early on Saturday feeling refreshed and rested...rested enough for a spontaneous morning roll in the hay. After a quick breakfast and some homemade Bloody Marys, we were off to a family event that took half the day, but afterward, we were rewarded with a date at our favorite blues club. After dinner, a couple of drinks and some good music, we headed home for the night. She was a little drunk and sleepy on the way home, so when we got in, we showered and hit the sack for some sleep at about 1:30 am. I awoke at about 2:30 am to her kissing me out of nowhere. I was disoriented, but quickly woke up enough to roll over and jump on top. After a quick romp, we rolled over and went to sleep.
This is interesting because the roles are usually reversed. I've become known for initiating sex while I'm asleep when I've had a lot to drink. I can't remember an instance recently that she's done that. It was fun and surprising and, since I'd had a couple of drinks, too, I was a little more sexually aggressive.
Exhausted from a hellish week at work, we went to bed early on Friday...like old folks. Consequently, we got up pretty early on Saturday feeling refreshed and rested...rested enough for a spontaneous morning roll in the hay. After a quick breakfast and some homemade Bloody Marys, we were off to a family event that took half the day, but afterward, we were rewarded with a date at our favorite blues club. After dinner, a couple of drinks and some good music, we headed home for the night. She was a little drunk and sleepy on the way home, so when we got in, we showered and hit the sack for some sleep at about 1:30 am. I awoke at about 2:30 am to her kissing me out of nowhere. I was disoriented, but quickly woke up enough to roll over and jump on top. After a quick romp, we rolled over and went to sleep.
This is interesting because the roles are usually reversed. I've become known for initiating sex while I'm asleep when I've had a lot to drink. I can't remember an instance recently that she's done that. It was fun and surprising and, since I'd had a couple of drinks, too, I was a little more sexually aggressive.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Week 14--No mouth or hands
So far we've done Mouth Only in week 4 and Hands Only in week 8. Naturally, we need a night where neither mouth nor hands can be used. At least on genitals. Although simply by random chance, it worked out rather poetically having them occur in this order. Going in, I was thinking that it was going to be just a regular old roll in the hay sans the foreplay. Seems kinda boring. But recently, and very strangely, wifey has been finding it difficult to cum in positions other than doggy. So that got me thinking about what tricks we'd have to employ to get her off without using hands or mouths on her lady bits.
After a little bit of kissing, we reached for the lube. It seemed like an abrupt beginning, but we quickly got worked up. Somewhere in there, while in missionary, I reached around and started playing with her rear. She quickly came and came again before I finished. Did I cheat? Technically, no, because my hands never touched her genitals. Okay, maybe.
In any event, it was a quick romp...the whole event took about 20 minutes...and we only did one position--missionary. But it was very satisfying for both of us...probably because we hadn't had sex in nearly a week. I was surprised (pleasantly) that she was able to get so aroused and orgasm from missionary without additional stimulation. For my part, I did do my best to use my hips to keep pressure on her clit, so that may have helped a little. So everybody wins and then gets great sleep.
After a little bit of kissing, we reached for the lube. It seemed like an abrupt beginning, but we quickly got worked up. Somewhere in there, while in missionary, I reached around and started playing with her rear. She quickly came and came again before I finished. Did I cheat? Technically, no, because my hands never touched her genitals. Okay, maybe.
In any event, it was a quick romp...the whole event took about 20 minutes...and we only did one position--missionary. But it was very satisfying for both of us...probably because we hadn't had sex in nearly a week. I was surprised (pleasantly) that she was able to get so aroused and orgasm from missionary without additional stimulation. For my part, I did do my best to use my hips to keep pressure on her clit, so that may have helped a little. So everybody wins and then gets great sleep.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Week 12--Foreplay
Neither of us have any idea what we were envisioning when we thought up this challenge. We've been pretty good about the weeks not getting away from us, but not so this time. We didn't really have a good idea and it was late Saturday night, so I set about the task of performing fellatio on wifey. It was a little longer and I reached a little deeper into the bag of tricks and gave her a couple of good orgasms before we moved on to some really good sex. Emphasis on foreplay? Check. Mission accomplished.
Now on to the bigger story...
We've been continuing on down the path of anal over the last several weeks and, finally this week, we had full, penetrative anal sex. It started and proceeded like any other sex, until she uttered words that she's never said before: "Touch my butt." Wait...what? Okay, so I start touching her butt. And her clit. While having vaginal sex. It was sort of like juggling. Eventually we switched to doggy and proceeded with our usual anal fingering with her touching herself. During this, she had a series of intense orgasms and surprised me afterwards by saying, "try to get your tip in." To which I replied, "you're not ready." She was still a little tense, so we continued having sex and stimulating her until she relaxed more.
At this point, I had a good feeling about things, so I took a minor risk. I stopped to put on a condom, halfway expecting this to go well. I heaped on the lube and started feeling around, but her butt was locked down and tense. Then I started kissing and rubbing her back and something magical happened. She relaxed her muscles and I started sliding in slowly. Don't mess this up. Still half amazed, I slid in slowly waiting for her to tell me to stop. Until I bottomed out with my hips hitting her butt. Determined to not mess this up, I stayed perfectly still and kissed her back while she, basically, got herself off with me in her ass. But I was shocked when she started rocking back against me as she approached orgasm. After she came, she freaked out a little bit, wanting me to get out. I took a minute to calm her down and pulled out slowly before I removed the condom, washed up and finished having vaginal sex. Afterward, she said she had no pain, and it felt good, but she had a more intense orgasm during the fingering.
Several things amazed me here: first, she asked me to touch her rear. Second, she assumed conscious control of her anal muscles. Third, we were able to get me completely in on the first try. And, finally, she was getting surprisingly into it by moving back and forth against me. After a quick debrief and a high-five, we went and got lunch.
Now on to the bigger story...
We've been continuing on down the path of anal over the last several weeks and, finally this week, we had full, penetrative anal sex. It started and proceeded like any other sex, until she uttered words that she's never said before: "Touch my butt." Wait...what? Okay, so I start touching her butt. And her clit. While having vaginal sex. It was sort of like juggling. Eventually we switched to doggy and proceeded with our usual anal fingering with her touching herself. During this, she had a series of intense orgasms and surprised me afterwards by saying, "try to get your tip in." To which I replied, "you're not ready." She was still a little tense, so we continued having sex and stimulating her until she relaxed more.
At this point, I had a good feeling about things, so I took a minor risk. I stopped to put on a condom, halfway expecting this to go well. I heaped on the lube and started feeling around, but her butt was locked down and tense. Then I started kissing and rubbing her back and something magical happened. She relaxed her muscles and I started sliding in slowly. Don't mess this up. Still half amazed, I slid in slowly waiting for her to tell me to stop. Until I bottomed out with my hips hitting her butt. Determined to not mess this up, I stayed perfectly still and kissed her back while she, basically, got herself off with me in her ass. But I was shocked when she started rocking back against me as she approached orgasm. After she came, she freaked out a little bit, wanting me to get out. I took a minute to calm her down and pulled out slowly before I removed the condom, washed up and finished having vaginal sex. Afterward, she said she had no pain, and it felt good, but she had a more intense orgasm during the fingering.
Several things amazed me here: first, she asked me to touch her rear. Second, she assumed conscious control of her anal muscles. Third, we were able to get me completely in on the first try. And, finally, she was getting surprisingly into it by moving back and forth against me. After a quick debrief and a high-five, we went and got lunch.
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