I've known since we've been together that wifey loves being handled roughly...being held down, having her hair pulled and having her ass smacked is a huge turn on for her. Under normal circumstances, I suppose I could be described as "assertive" in bed--I tend to be pretty loving, but I'm still assertive about moving her around, putting her where I want her and holding her there. She likes it. When I'm drunk, I get "aggressive"--I hold her down, fuck her hard and, generally, man-handle her. She loves it. What I generally don't do is hit her or pull her hair. There's something inside of my head that stops me from causing her pain, even though that gets her off. So this challenge was really for me to see if I could shake those inhibitions.
I know that I'm a lot more sexually aggressive and rougher when I'm drunk, so, as luck would have it, we got down to business after dinner and (quite a) few drinks with some friends, so I had a little buzz on. We showered, went up stairs and started fooling around. I started off as my usual "assertive" self, but with a little prompting from wifey and quite a lot of conscious effort, I started smacking her ass. Later on, I added in a bit of surprisingly spontaneous hair pulling, which she seemed to enjoy.
We've been here, done this before. I don't have anything against being rough, but it's just not me for some reason. It really seems unnatural and forced when I try to do it and I get the sense that the execution leaves a little bit to be desired. All in all, I'm never really "into it," but we'll see how things go if/when it happens again.
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