We've been gone for a few days with a medical illness, but we're back...undeterred. Time to catch up after basically two weeks off.
We had a little unexpected hiatus, but a weekend full of sexy time. We had a long, intense romp on Friday afternoon before going out to run errands. This will probably be the warmest day of the waning year, so it's a good time for wifey to go sans panties. We ran around, made a couple of stops and popped into a cafe for coffee...all while wifey was nude under her pants.
This was less of a turn on for me than I thought. I thought that knowing that she was running around without panties would get me wound up, but it really didn't. Similarly, she didn't feel as sexy as I thought she would. She was more chilly and self-conscious than anything else. If we had it to do over again, we would probably wait to have sex until afterwards so we can think about it and get turned on But, let's face it...nothing beats some spontaneous afternoon sex.
Monday, October 31, 2011
Week 44--Shower sex
We actually completed a challenge early for a change. You can read about our challenge here.
Week 43--Erotic massage
We actually have a 3-for-1 this week: past, present and future. We have a make up from last week (pheromones), this week's challenge (erotic massage) and, since wifey is going to be out of commission for next week, a future challenge (shower sex). This should be interesting...
The first two are an obvious match: we have strawberry-scented pheromone massage oil. It's basically mineral oil with a fancy scent and...pheromones. I'm skeptical of the effects of pheromones, but then again, I was skeptical of aphrodisiacs. I've eaten them twice and I swear that there's a noticeable effect on how sensitive I am and how strong my orgasms are. So let's keep an open mind.
It was a little chilly, but wifey and I stripped down down for a sensual massage. She laid on her stomach and I straddled her legs and began to rub her back, neck and shoulders. Almost immediately, I started to get hard. I'm not really sure why...there wasn't much stimulation other than visual, but it happened more quickly than I anticipated. Eventually, my hands started to wander...down to her butt...around to her boobs. After about 20 minutes, we switched. For me, the massage was more relaxing than arousing, but after a while, she rolled me over and took me into her mouth. From there, it was a graceful flow through a number of positions: cowgirl, missionary and culminating in her massive orgasm in doggy. I held off (barely) and we ran up stairs for our third challenge.
We had a little sample pack of silicone lube that I was saving for anal exploration, but the waterproof nature of it made it perfect for shower sex. We jumped in and immediately got to some doggy style. After a couple more orgasms, I finished. The best part of shower sex is that you don't have to worry about clean up.
I don't really know what to say about pheromones. Females are supposed to be more sensitive to the effects of pheromones, but she didn't really seem to be any different. I got an erection surprisingly early in the game, but I was laying on my nude wife, so it's hard to credit the pheromones. I'm not a believer. As for the massage, wifey did say, multiple times, "you could do this every week and I'd be happy." I'm not a huge massage fan, though. I got way more turned on giving the massage than receiving it. Shower sex was fun and novel, but cramped. It would be better if it was a spontaneous thing, but it requires waterproof lube and some prep, which takes away from the fun and makes it just uncomfortable sex. Most importantly, though, it was an opportunity to have some fun, uninhibited sex.
The first two are an obvious match: we have strawberry-scented pheromone massage oil. It's basically mineral oil with a fancy scent and...pheromones. I'm skeptical of the effects of pheromones, but then again, I was skeptical of aphrodisiacs. I've eaten them twice and I swear that there's a noticeable effect on how sensitive I am and how strong my orgasms are. So let's keep an open mind.
It was a little chilly, but wifey and I stripped down down for a sensual massage. She laid on her stomach and I straddled her legs and began to rub her back, neck and shoulders. Almost immediately, I started to get hard. I'm not really sure why...there wasn't much stimulation other than visual, but it happened more quickly than I anticipated. Eventually, my hands started to wander...down to her butt...around to her boobs. After about 20 minutes, we switched. For me, the massage was more relaxing than arousing, but after a while, she rolled me over and took me into her mouth. From there, it was a graceful flow through a number of positions: cowgirl, missionary and culminating in her massive orgasm in doggy. I held off (barely) and we ran up stairs for our third challenge.
We had a little sample pack of silicone lube that I was saving for anal exploration, but the waterproof nature of it made it perfect for shower sex. We jumped in and immediately got to some doggy style. After a couple more orgasms, I finished. The best part of shower sex is that you don't have to worry about clean up.
I don't really know what to say about pheromones. Females are supposed to be more sensitive to the effects of pheromones, but she didn't really seem to be any different. I got an erection surprisingly early in the game, but I was laying on my nude wife, so it's hard to credit the pheromones. I'm not a believer. As for the massage, wifey did say, multiple times, "you could do this every week and I'd be happy." I'm not a huge massage fan, though. I got way more turned on giving the massage than receiving it. Shower sex was fun and novel, but cramped. It would be better if it was a spontaneous thing, but it requires waterproof lube and some prep, which takes away from the fun and makes it just uncomfortable sex. Most importantly, though, it was an opportunity to have some fun, uninhibited sex.
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Week 41--Deep Throat
Two challenges this week: porn night (from last week) and deep throat.
We're definitely no strangers to porn, but it's been years since we've spent more than a few minutes watching porn together. When we were dating, I had a monthly subscription to PlayboyTV and we became pretty big fans of a few of their shows. Since, kids have prevented most of our porn watching, but this is a good opportunity to bring some of that porn fun back and branch out a bit. Rather than just sticking with PlayboyTV or internet porn, I ordered up a 3-hour all-access block of six channels so we have some variety. If you've never watched TV porn it's very...traditional. Traditional girls and guys, positions, sights and sounds. But mixed into that, there is a fair bit of amateur action, which we both like. After about 2 hours, wifey says out of the blue, "This is working. I'm feeling a little tingle." And she was.
Deep throating, though, is something new for us, even considering wifey's considerable oral prowess. She frequently takes me in all the way to the back of her throat, but we've never actually tried to deep throat, mostly because she has a small mouth and throat and I'm a bit larger than average. I've done a little bit of research and we're going to see if we can pull it off using positioning and a few techniques.
When we retired upstairs, we got right to business. Wifey, as she usually does, gave great oral and took me deep into her mouth. But position is important and we tried several positions to make her throat as straight as possible to accommodate me. I read a lot about the 69 woman on top position because she can control the depth and angle. I definitely felt like I went a little deeper and I got to play with her in the process (which, I think was a little bit distracting). My ace in the hole was the position I heard recommended the most: her on her back with her head hanging off the bed. This position lines up the throat for penetration, but the problem is that she is on her back and has no control over the depth of penetration. Conscious of gagging her too much, I was too hesitant to really push things. Besides, I sensed she was tired of gagging. I definitely think the 69 position was the deepest penetration we achieved, but we never quite got there.
But after all of this is where things get interesting. I dragged her to the edge of the bed and went down on her. As she started to cum, I inserted a finger and continued to work on her clit with my tongue. This is one of her favorite things and she came...and came...and came. Later, she said that she'd never cum for that long at a time. When I finally let her up, I kept her at the end of the bed as we went at it--another of her favorites. As we transitioned from missionary to doggystyle she continued to climax again and again, almost wearing herself out.
I asked her what the reason was for this amazing performance. The porn? The little added kink of the deep throat? The oral? "I dunno. All of it, I think." Whatever the reason, it was a great night.
We're definitely no strangers to porn, but it's been years since we've spent more than a few minutes watching porn together. When we were dating, I had a monthly subscription to PlayboyTV and we became pretty big fans of a few of their shows. Since, kids have prevented most of our porn watching, but this is a good opportunity to bring some of that porn fun back and branch out a bit. Rather than just sticking with PlayboyTV or internet porn, I ordered up a 3-hour all-access block of six channels so we have some variety. If you've never watched TV porn it's very...traditional. Traditional girls and guys, positions, sights and sounds. But mixed into that, there is a fair bit of amateur action, which we both like. After about 2 hours, wifey says out of the blue, "This is working. I'm feeling a little tingle." And she was.
Deep throating, though, is something new for us, even considering wifey's considerable oral prowess. She frequently takes me in all the way to the back of her throat, but we've never actually tried to deep throat, mostly because she has a small mouth and throat and I'm a bit larger than average. I've done a little bit of research and we're going to see if we can pull it off using positioning and a few techniques.
When we retired upstairs, we got right to business. Wifey, as she usually does, gave great oral and took me deep into her mouth. But position is important and we tried several positions to make her throat as straight as possible to accommodate me. I read a lot about the 69 woman on top position because she can control the depth and angle. I definitely felt like I went a little deeper and I got to play with her in the process (which, I think was a little bit distracting). My ace in the hole was the position I heard recommended the most: her on her back with her head hanging off the bed. This position lines up the throat for penetration, but the problem is that she is on her back and has no control over the depth of penetration. Conscious of gagging her too much, I was too hesitant to really push things. Besides, I sensed she was tired of gagging. I definitely think the 69 position was the deepest penetration we achieved, but we never quite got there.
But after all of this is where things get interesting. I dragged her to the edge of the bed and went down on her. As she started to cum, I inserted a finger and continued to work on her clit with my tongue. This is one of her favorite things and she came...and came...and came. Later, she said that she'd never cum for that long at a time. When I finally let her up, I kept her at the end of the bed as we went at it--another of her favorites. As we transitioned from missionary to doggystyle she continued to climax again and again, almost wearing herself out.
I asked her what the reason was for this amazing performance. The porn? The little added kink of the deep throat? The oral? "I dunno. All of it, I think." Whatever the reason, it was a great night.
Monday, October 10, 2011
Week 39--Car sex
To be honest, sex in a car is not necessary for adults. I mean, we're not sneaky teens...hot and horny and down for a hump without anywhere to go. We're married adults...hot and horny and down for a hump. So why would we go through the trouble? Really just for fun. I mean, it's a neat, playful thing to try. Or so we thought...
With no kids in the house, we had a nice dinner and the fired up the fire pit for the first time this year. After some relaxation, we decided to get at it. I sort of had a notion to go "park" somewhere, but better not to add any complexity. We just stuck to the garage...back of the SUV it is. It's a full-sized SUV, but leg room doesn't necessarily translate into, um, nookie room.
After getting in and losing the pants, we got right to it. The problem is that wifey has legs that go all the way up, so her straddling me wouldn't work. Similarly, my plan to have her in reverse cowgirl was a no go because her knees kept hitting the front seats. Eventually we got comfortable with her on her side on the back seat and me with one knee on the seat and an awkwardly bent leg supporting me on the floor. We actually worked up a good rhythm before my right leg got a bit wobbly. She rolled onto her back and we resumed in a missionary-style position. She even had an orgasm, which was surprising given the conditions.
This was actually pretty fun. It was every bit as annoying as it was playful and silly. We don't have a reason to do this, but that's the point...it was "just because." Would we do it again? No. But we had fun in the moment.
With no kids in the house, we had a nice dinner and the fired up the fire pit for the first time this year. After some relaxation, we decided to get at it. I sort of had a notion to go "park" somewhere, but better not to add any complexity. We just stuck to the garage...back of the SUV it is. It's a full-sized SUV, but leg room doesn't necessarily translate into, um, nookie room.
After getting in and losing the pants, we got right to it. The problem is that wifey has legs that go all the way up, so her straddling me wouldn't work. Similarly, my plan to have her in reverse cowgirl was a no go because her knees kept hitting the front seats. Eventually we got comfortable with her on her side on the back seat and me with one knee on the seat and an awkwardly bent leg supporting me on the floor. We actually worked up a good rhythm before my right leg got a bit wobbly. She rolled onto her back and we resumed in a missionary-style position. She even had an orgasm, which was surprising given the conditions.
This was actually pretty fun. It was every bit as annoying as it was playful and silly. We don't have a reason to do this, but that's the point...it was "just because." Would we do it again? No. But we had fun in the moment.
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